A Little (Late) Love

The middle to end February marks the first round of midterm exams. It also is the supposed time of "Love." (Yes, even the oblivious college student sees the hearts and flowers that decorate shops and other buildings). Unfortunately, love and exams don't coincide well, especially the form of love which I lack the most, self-love. It is so difficult, when you are studying for hours or having trouble with a particularly boggling concept, to realize that you are a talented, worthwhile person. On the other hand, it is easy to want to give up and simply say "I can't do this because I am not smart/ talented/ confident enough." My goal this Valentine's day was to start by showing myself a little compassion and allowing that compassion to permeate through the rest of my life (my actions, my relationships, etc.). I felt, with a little difficulty, I was able to tell myself that, though I am certainly not perfect, I am intelligent enough to get myself through my exams by loving myself, loving others, and accepting their love in return. Newton said that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Therefore, by loving myself and others, I will recieve the love of others. Valentine's day is so much more than chocolate and roses (though they are certainly some great perks during the dreary part of winter). It is a holiday that reminds us to put a little love into everything! So... Love others, love the things you do, and, even when you are overcome by stress, love yourself!